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The Power of a Word: How One Word Can Transform Your Year

/ Ev Bishop / 10 Comments
Photo of a mixed media collage by Ev Bishop: images and words related to or inspired by Fearless. A BIG word that she wishes wasn't cut off in the lower corner is Hope. :)

Ooooof, I hardly know where to start. I want to babble about so many things today! Pour a cup of coffee and visit with me—and let’s start with thoughts about the Word for the Year trend, shall we? 

I am a recovering Resolution maniac. Historically, the lead-up to a new year would find me creating huge lists (often two pages of rule-lined paper, I kid you not!) of all my “resolutions.” Now, I have no problem with resolutions as a concept. I love goal-setting, dreaming, planning and scheming. However, sadly (sorry, little Ev, younger Ev, all past Evs.), my resolution lists were more like thinly veiled (or not thinly at all) criticisms, a catalogue of self-hatred, an inventory of all my perceived flaws and then a “remedy” for fixing them. 

A few years ago, I decided no more. Life was hard enough. People were mean enough. I needed to start having my own back. Needed to treat myself with the kindness and respect that I always strove hard to extend to others. I started practising something called RSA (radical self-acceptance and radical acceptance of others. It has been wonderful, freeing, and very growing. I do it incredibly imperfectly, and that’s a-ok. 😁 RSA could be its own blog post, actually!) 

And yet, I’m still a girl who loves to plan and dream, who enjoys looking back and thoughtfully considering what lessons the past might hold. I love being fully immersed in the present moment while simultaneously fantasising about possible futures. I missed my annual end-of-year resolution session, with candles, wine and mulling time. (Thankfully, not everything in my resolution tradition was mean to myself.) 

Anyway, around the time I was realizing my way of making resolutions perhaps wasn’t the healthiest, most beneficial, not to mention kindest, thing I could do for myself, a friend introduced me to the concept of adopting a word for the year, rather than drafting towering to-do and NOT-do lists. 

I was hooked. I loved the idea of—in a gentle, kind, super positive way—figuring out what I needed or wanted most in the upcoming year and then reminding myself to focus on it throughout the year. I haven’t missed my resolutions yet, and each year I feel my WOY becomes more powerful. 

Last year’s was Fearless. And I definitely, because of that word, chose to pursue things and reach for things that I might not have because of nerves or insecurity, “practicality,” “other commitments,” “good sense,” etc. (All words, for me, that I’ve started to recognise as fear). 

And choosing to be fearless, not talk myself out of going for things or trying new things, led to three extraordinary adventures for 2026. 

1) I committed to return to writing full-time, with the start date in mind of January 2026. Whoohooo!

2) This past summer, a very enticing call for applicants popped into my Social Media and, well, the long and short of it is that I am beyond thrilled, beyond super excited (and you guys know how excited and enthusiastic I am by nature!) and beyond honoured to announce that I am going to be Regina Public Library’s Writer in Residence January 2026 – June 2026.  

Just some of the things I’ll be doing as the WIR are: 

  • One-to-one assistance with personal writing projects, providing writing advice and suggestions, giving encouragement and support, and offering insight into all publishing phases: from research, to writing the first draft, to publication
  • Public readings and Q&A sessions
  • Free writing workshops

If you’re in Regina, SK, or it’s an easy mini road trip for you, set up an appointment to connect with me (e-mail wir@reginalibrary.ca)! I’d love to chat about—and possibly help with—your writing goals!

The Writer-in-Residence program doesn’t just benefit the writing community, however. The lucky recipient (in this case, ME!) is also given time and resources to work on their own projects. It was fantastic timing. Having already decided to return to writing full-time after taking three or so years off, this opportunity makes that shift feel absolutely lovely and meant to be. 

3) Late summer, a writing acquaintance reached out to me with an amazing opportunity, wondering if I’d be interested. . . . and I was. I am thrilled to share that I’ve joined Sterling & Stone, a multi-media story studio. 


So . . . that’s me. Very excited after a year of nervously committing to being fearless—a year that utterly surprised me by being gentle, kind and fun—and leading to such exciting things for this year. (A very welcome and needed balm after some very, very difficult years.)

I understand that for some of you, however, 2025 was NOT the kind of year it was to me. If you’re happy to see it in the rearview mirror, I get that, and I hope that 2026 is much better in every way.

And if there’s something you’re longing to pursue but feel nervous or have a million “good” reasons why you shouldn’t . . . Please go for it. Be fearless! 💓

Writing time never magically appears

/ Ev Bishop / 16 Comments

My children are back in school, my husband has settled back into his regular routine at work, and I run my own Writing Services business from home. I should have hours and hours to write uninterrupted, right? Uh huh.

Some days it’s a struggle just to fit in all my clients’ work and take care of the phone calls and e-mails that are involved in the kind of work I do. Balancing work, my family’s wants and needs (and mine–I don’t want to sacrifice the most important things in my life!), the volunteer things I do, the alone time I need, and my personal reading and writing feels like a tight rope walking adventure. But I like the dizzying rush. I’m not scared to look down. I’d be more worried if I never climbed up and started to inch foot over foot . . .

People often tell me they’d like to write someday. That they’re going to write one day. That they’d write now, but they don’t have time. I have a standard reply: It really is never too late to start, but time doesn’t carve itself. We won’t wake up one day and find that our work calendar has magically cleared, our bank accounts have filled themselves, and our family and friends no longer have emergencies or just want to visit (or I hope the latter doesn’t happen!). We have to make time now. We might even have to forgo something that brings pleasure.

My aunt is up visiting right now and it’s wonderful. We’re good friends and close. I would love nothing better than to just hang out and gab all day, so it was hard to tell her that despite how glad I am to have her, I have to work. But tell her I did, and she’s been great about it. “Oh, Ev, you’re so good. So disciplined.” Uh . . . not really. Not at all, in fact. I just know what I want to do, and I know that next week, next month, next year won’t be any freer time-wise, so I write now.

You can’t try to do things; you simply must do them. ~ Ray Bradbury

While I was away . . .

/ Ev Bishop / 20 Comments

I’m still in the process of Organizing My Office (note the capital letters, please). It’s a convoluted task. While I was away this summer, messmaker elves (a breed similar to the shoemaker’s elves in the old fairy tale, but nowhere near as helpful or benign) were hard at work. Or at least I’m pretty sure they were involved–I have no idea who else would’ve left stacks of notes jotted on crumpled scraps of paper, piles of mail (opened, but not dealt with), and mountains of miscallanea across the region called (in fond remembrance) my desk.

While other writers are in full fall mode and have already written inspiring posts about new energy to pursue goals and freshly scrutinized, revamped plans, I’m pulling out another trash bin. However, there’s been some progress. My keyboard is cleared (I do have my priorities), my year-at-a-glance calendar is updated (yes, I consider September the first month in a new year), and I’ve pulled down my corkboard (not sure that was a good decision) to replace with two new ones . . .

Before digging into my day’s work though (editing and writing a column, then organizing if I get to it ;-)), I wanted to share two exciting things that happened while I was away (no elves are involved this time): (1) I had a story accepted by AlienSkin Magazine. “Red Bird” will appear in their December 2009/January 2010 issue. (2) I got an e-mail about how well Cleavage – Breakaway Fiction For Real Girls is doing. It’s gone into a second printing and is listed in the Canadian Children’s Book Centre’s Best Books for Kids & Teens 2009, as well as in Resource Links Best of 2008 for Grades 7 – 12. The editors Deb Loughead and Jocelyn Shipley continue to promote it and the book now has a trailer. I know my story is just one small part of the anthology, but I’m very excited about how the whole book has been received!

Autumn is re-energizing, but even more inspiring than new post-it-notes, colour-keyed schedules, and the like, is the fact that bit-by-bit I’m starting to amass a body of fiction. I’ve published non-fiction for awhile, but I’m eager to share my stories. Slowly, slowly it’s happening. It’s happening! And I don’t want to rush my year, but I’m already wondering what nice surprises I’ll look back at next September.

Goals for a new year….

/ Ev Bishop / 1 Comment

Happy New Year! (Okay, so my wish is a bit late—sorry about that!)

It seems that making New Year’s resolutions has gone out of vogue for some people (maybe for lots of people?), but even if I don’t always accomplish my goals, I feel there’s a real benefit in thinking through the year past and contemplating the year ahead.

2009 is already looking exciting, full of “big” events and changes. My daughter, who’s currently working toward her pilot’s license, will turn sixteen and will definitely be driving a car. My son will enter his teens, and my husband and I will be separated for longer than we ever have been before (almost two months), as he works out of town this summer.

Some things won’t change though. I will still be writing, still striving to better my craft, still trying to express the worlds that live in my head.

I’m hoping to land an agent and/or publishing contract for a novel or two this year, but it’s a hard thing to set as a goal—so many factors in making it happen are out of my control. That said however, some of the most important steps along the path to publication are fully within my control—are fully in the control of any writer.

We are in charge of whether we write regularly. We determine our word counts. We focus (hopefully) on ever improving our craft and storytelling. We decide on how many agents or markets we submit work to. We are responsible for not giving up.

I’ve made goals that I will meet in 2009, knowing that little by little they will help me reach my goal of having a novel “out there” are:

~ Edit current WIP and submit it to 100 agents (unless I get one before that point—hope, hope!).

~ Start a new novel, and strive to have at least the first draft complete by the end of October.

~ Write (or edit/polish) six short stories and submit them about.

~ Attend SiWC 2009

I hope you’ve set goals this year too—if you haven’t, do so now. It’ll get you fired up.

Cheers to us in 2009: Great word counts, much growth!

~ Ev